So you finally landed that hottie you’ve been pinning for several months now. You are on top of the world right now. But you are still worried if he’s the one? Guys are that easy to decipher they say, but how do you know he’s into you? Let us help you with it. It is not easy to figure out someone's love for you no matter what stage of life or what age you are. Here we introduce 10 easy ways to identify that he’s really into you. Now, put your relationship through the list!
First stop to know if he likes you. So you’ve got to cross the street to reach your favourite café. He slowly places his arm around you hand or your back to make sure you are safe while crossing. While entering the café his arm is still around your waist? He clearly does not want to miss a chance to touch you! If a guy is interested, he will physically show it by making it a point to never miss a chance to touch you.
This one is the second way to know he’s yours. Monday morning blues. Everyone has them. Has he ever tried emailing you on an office day even if both of you are online at the same time on Facebook? Clearly shows you matter to him and he’s serious. If he pokes you on Facebook regularly but never emails you if you are offline, he might be just looking for some fun.
So you went for a drink last night and haven’t made any plans to see each other yet. Its noon today and you are yet to call him and don’t plan on doing so for some time. If he calls you first then you know he’s been thinking of you. If he continues to try to talk even when the topic at hand has been discussed, he likes you.
This is a simple way to know that he cares as well. If he chooses to showcase you in front of people he cares, he is proud of you. This shows that he is interested in you for long term. If he has made you meet most of his best buddies and takes you around for night-outs then he’s into you.
The count-down continues with this hint. So he’s got a 5 PM meeting which will run till 7 and his gym session begins by 8. But since he’s made plans to meet with you at 8, he won’t cancel. He is willing to go that extra mile to spend as much time as possible for you. You know what that means.
The next on the list is this tip. Everyone knows what a dinner and a few drinks with an invitation to his place means. He wants to score. But if he makes it a point to have meals that do not occur prior to you REM cycle, he cares. This means he really wants to get to know you as a person. He is attracted to you and not just your body. Lunch happens between office hours as well and if he pines to meet you between works and time off as well, it means that he seeks solace in your company.
Our next tip is really something every girl should notice. The sure way to tell if a man in interested in you is the way he makes eye contact with you. Does he constantly keep a gaze on you? Does he make sure that you also hold eye contact with him as well? This is a great way to tell if he’s into you. If he does not let his gaze move away for even a second, he surely likes you and thinks you are special. Eye contact is an excellent way to tell if a person is listening carefully or paying attention to you and what you are saying. It is a way to tell if he is distracted or is thinking about something else. So if he’s keeping good eye contact with you, you know what he means.
This one almost breaks my heart and is therefore placed so high up on the list. So he got mad at you for checking your phone too often last night and left for home in a jiffy? But this morning before breakfast you found 3 texts/ Whatsapp messages and a missed call? You know he is no longer angry. He lets go of your mistake. If he regularly forgets your stupidities that have hurt him, he cares. If you have wronged him and he still comes back to you, you know he’s special.
I personally feel that this one hint is the cutest. He clearly hates Lebanese, but will gulp that pita down since you can’t let go of your hummus and falafel. Even if it is Chinese takeout day and you make your puppy eyes for Lebanese, he will order from your regular guy without making much of a fuss. If he does other such things, where he clearly loses out, he surely cares. Your choices determine his as well, then you’ve got your guy.
Our number one reason! Guys generally forget things that do not interest them. If your guy pays close attention to what you are saying, it says that he’s into you. If he can recall stuff from last week or month, rest assure that he cares. He’s really saying that you are important.
No comments:
Post a Comment